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Originally posted by popmagic
You guys seem to insist on NOT seeing the problem with Dustin's way of handling this relationship. As I stated before, Tom has not seen the gay scene in full circle, which makes him an easy target for being pulled in a future he will later regret. Those who are familiar with Dustin knows he is so deep into his **** that no sane gay man around his age would get serious with him. But Tom has actually no idea that he will suffer tremendously after Dustin ****s up in five years. Never mind the heartbreak pain, he will have a cold hard slap in the face when he tries to get out in the gay dating pool only to realize he was a gay male's fantasy turned into a hand me down prize in his late 20s.
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SPILL THE TEA SIS
Maybe a 40-20 relationship is possible, who knows. But in this specific scenario one can tell that Dustin is an absolute predator.
Tom should be in a more healthy relationship, someone that he can get old WITH. You don't want to be changing your lovers diapers when you should be enjoying your mid-late life.
And well done for labelling literally millions of relationships as unnatural because they didn't sleep around before finding the person they love.
((" "Tom managed to get it right on the first try while I went through 20 men and STD Scares 
