Hmm as a 6ft2 male, I pretty much take what I can get. Yeah I'd love to be a stereotypical little spoon but the reality is I'm a bad ass bitch and I'll hug you if I want you, but otherwise get away. I don't even like spooning anyway, it's annoying. Do me and go.
Edit: I realize I just took out some of my own personal issues on this post.
Yes and no -- honestly I find taller men to be much more sexually attractive in general. It's silly, but I find height appealing in men and it does have an effect on initial physical attraction in situations where I may be meeting a guy and I really don't have much to go on aside what I'm seeing.
I agree. I am usually attracted to 6 foot or over men but I'm 5'1 and I think 5'9 men is perfect for me which is the height of my man. Not too short and not too tall.