That's the only thing I'm worried about. Dustin pursued him when Tom was a teenager and he came out to the world through the relationship. Dustin is in his 40s and has had decades to explore and discover himself. Tom has literally no experience with his own sexuality outside of this relationship (I'm assuming). Just not sure it's the best circumstances to commit the rest of your life to someone.
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Originally posted by toanythingtaboo
It's less about DLB's age and more Tom's. I just can't help but be cynical when twenteen year olds get engaged/married. Don't feel it's realistic to settle down so young and expect it to last.
i thought my first love was "the one" but then i dated other people and i knew how completely wrong i was. i was just very overwhelmed with the newness and it being my first ever. i discovered more about relationships when that ended. and i realized how wrong i was. i'm glad i didn't settle for that
Your experience =/= Tom Daley's experience. Why can't people get this into their heads? Stop projecting your tragic life experiences onto them.
i thought my first love was "the one" but then i dated other people and i knew how completely wrong i was. i was just very overwhelmed with the newness and it being my first ever. i discovered more about relationships when that ended. and i realized how wrong i was. i'm glad i didn't settle for that
Exactly. I'm 24 and my fiance is 25 and we've been engaged since January. We're happy and feel it's the right time. I love him and he loves me. True love tells all.
How many times does this need to be said? YOURS or MY experiences have NOTHING to do with theirs. Either congratulate them or shut up, because your bitter life experiences have nothing to do with their relationship.