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Originally posted by B'Day
AGAIN, no **** Sherlock, I got your 'logic' but YET you chose to involve relaxing and black hair. Do you not know how sensitive the topic of black hair is? And no, not necessarily. White people having dreadlocks has nothing to do with black people relaxing their hair 
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you clearly didn't, and you still don't get it now. the entire point of my saying that was to showcase how stupid it was--and here you are taking it seriously. that's enough proof to show you didn't get the message
and you may consider it sensitive, but I don't, nor do I have to. I see no problems with black women relaxing their hair; it's their choice. But in rebuttal to the stupid logic of white girl wearing a popular black style = appropriating, then the same line of thinking can be used vice versa (for blacks). Sorry to say but, your feelings don't null this.
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Originally posted by FAME.
Except this still isn't comparable. The reasoning behind alot of black people straightening their hair, and other things like that (aside from the ones B'Day listed) is because of the white standards of beauty that they are forced to be subjected to and have been implemented into our society since the beginning of time. Black people are basically brought up to believe that their skin, hair, features, etc aren't beautiful and are subconsciously taught that white standards of beauty are the norm and are beautiful. Do you even know how hair straightening began? Black women were basically FORCED to straighten their hair because their real hair was considered ugly, unkempt and unacceptable. Till this day you can't get some jobs with an afro or dreadlocks
It goes beyond trying out a style because they think it's "cool" or "trendy"
So no, the "same logic" can not be applied because it's not the same whatsoever.
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Except it is comparable. You've done nothing in this post except list more reasons--which I was already aware of--and have yet to actually get to the point. Black women do it for a plethora of reasons, such as wanting to be seen as more acceptable and to have hair that's easier to deal with. That's all fine and dandy because it's their choice. But why can't this white girl have dreadlocks so she can feel closer to her religion?
Even if this girl wasn't doing it for religious reasons, I'd still advocate for her because it's her ****ing decision. The thing about decisions is that it's ok for them to be superficial; not all of them need this grandiose underlying purpose behind them to be "valid". Her wanting dreadlocks to feel closer to her religion is no more vain than a black girl relaxing her hair because so she can take care of it more easily.