This is just a general question, but I'm curious. Do you let others take the lead/decide when you guys hang out and when they leave? I'm not sure if people without self-respect are even aware or care how others use them...
For example, my one friend (whom hates me now) is being used by my ex to make me jealous. He knows it too since I told him a while ago but he doesn't care because he likes being included with the gang of guys (there's like +10 of us that hang out etc. I don't anymore but yeah).
I find it so sad though. I'm like, do you have no shame? Are you really just a boy-toy that's gonna be used whenever he calls? Sometimes I wonder if life is easier without feeling shame but I could never live my life like that.
FYI - I'm over them all but I find it so weird. And then my ex still tries to hit me up
they are so sad
