at you **** getting offended. As if you'd ever have your arms around a woman.

But it would be too awkward to immediately put arm around women's waist, the arm-around-shoulder is a crucial intermediate step

Kinda messy but she's 70 so cut her some slack

Not when almost every woman craves an arm around their shoulders lbr.
It's a way to show affection and show that you are proud to be with her.

Although I don't necessarily agree, I get what she's saying. However there are much more troubling things about male-female relationships...

can she let everyone do what they want as long as they don't harm anyone ugh