So the other day I was chatting with a bisexual coworker of mine who would generally be more or less my "type", and the topic of women came up. In theory, I would have answered a question like "would you date a bisexual" as "of course
![Bibliotheque](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/biblio_zps23dff242.gif)
", but hearing him describe what his "type" of women are was oddly such a turn off
![Doc](http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v232/korn0818/ATRL_Smilies_All/atrlers/doc_zpsc886535c.gif)
Maybe it comes from growing up crushing on straight/closeted boys and always setting myself up for disappointment, so my mind associates any female attraction to full on heterosexuality*, which = unavailability.
Has anyone else felt the same way? Or did ya'll have preconceptions about bi people that you learned to set aside by dating/befriending one? Does this make me homophobic(biphobic?)? etc.
* And on the topic of heterosexuality, I'm one of those (seemingly rare) gays who are NOT turned on by straight/gay for pay/etc guys. The air of un-attainability is probably the quickest turn off for me.