No. There are many soft spoken men who are straight. Like, they're flamboyant or whatever you wanna call them.
Then you have gay men who are rigid, stern and gruff.
People come in more ways than what tv and movies would lead you to believe. A lot of gay men don't like announcing their sexuality. It doesn't make them ashamed it just makes them private people. But from the gays in Hollywood that are out, you'd think that to be gay would to be a flaming queen with abs and such.
It may seem weird if you're a teenager without much life experience but in the real world being gay isn't as exciting as it looks on the internet
So are you saying lesbian couples only raise twinks? This is a stupid toxic way of thinking you do not need a man to teach you how to be a man for multiple reasons