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Discussion: Relationship Survey
Member Since: 11/26/2011
Posts: 1,779
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
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Member Since: 4/20/2012
Posts: 6,896
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
A year or more.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
2-3 dates is fine.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
Share a bed of course.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
I wouldn't mind after a while into our relationship.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
No.
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
No.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Both of them are fine.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Both of them are fine.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
Both of them are fine, some Friday nights we can go out and some of them we can stay home.
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
No.

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Member Since: 11/26/2011
Posts: 1,779
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
About a year.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
5+ dates
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
Share a bed
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
I wouldn't mind after a while into our relationship.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
No. As long as they are still making something of theirself and aren't relying on me to pay everything.
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
No.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
I prefer a taller guy.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Masculine guys >>> I'm not attracted to feminine acting men.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
Doesn't matter, some Friday nights we can go out and some of them we can stay home.
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Slightly overweight? That's fine. Obese? No.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 13,434
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
1-2 years
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
3 dates unless he's super nice and cute on first date
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
can i have both?
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
i dont mind
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
No
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
Not at all. Guys who like sports are attractive
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Taller definitely
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
More masculine
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
Movies or stay home and cuddle or go to romantic restaurant
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Yes
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Member Since: 3/30/2011
Posts: 33,325
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
We'd have to be dating at least a year for me to consider it. It also depends on how strong the feelings are.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
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It really all depends on a case by case basis.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
I mean, I'd like a 2 bedroom so that I have a place to put guests in, but if we're getting an apartment together then we're definitely sharing a bed.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
As long as I'm not in there when he's taking the #2, then idc.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
No.
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
As long as they aren't obnoxious with it.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
I'm pretty short, so I like guys that are taller.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
More masculine.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
Me and my boyfriend stay in pretty regularly on Fridays, but we do go out from time to time.
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Not too overweight. I actually like them a little bit thick.
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 40,566
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
1-3 years
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
Idk maybe like 2000?
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
Get a 2 bedroom apartment just in case he's going in the doghouse
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
Just don't tell me tbh
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
Nope
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
I am dating someone who loves sports so...
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Taller
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Masculine but I don't mind
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
To the movies
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
For health reasons yes
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Member Since: 10/19/2010
Posts: 3,949
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
At least 3 years
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
I don't care tbh. It could be on the first date or on the 50th.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
2 Bedrooms for sure. I need my space and I actually enjoy sleeping on my own. Sleeping with other people is annoying and stressful tbh. Although that doesn't mean i'd NEVER sleep with them ever.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
People who fart in front of me bother me. It smells, which is gross and and akward.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
Wouldn't bother me at all.
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
It's a no-go for me. I don't care about sports at all and if they're an avid fan that it's just not going to flow with me.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Taller.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Well I'm female so I rarely meet straight, feminine guys but it wouldn't bother me. I'd actually be more bothered by a too masculine man.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
I'd like a mix actually. We could go out to a pub or something, meet friends, have a good time then go home watch a movie etc.
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Yes
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 15,224
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
A year or more
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
Anything from 1
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
I'd get a 2 bedroom but share a bed with them
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
Yes. That **** will never be ok
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
No
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
No
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Taller
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Masculine
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
Netflix and chill
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Yes.
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
Posts: 4,663
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
At least a year.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
About three if we get on very well from the start, otherwise it takes more.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
A double bed is alright with me.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
It's natural, but do it discreetly. Like, don't fart in my face.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
No. As long as he's working and not just sitting at home, I wouldn't ever think of it as an issue.
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
No, everyone likes different things, just don't force me to watch.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Taller, as I'm really short myself.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Everything depends on how we get on, though I prefer to go for the more masculine type.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
Eating out, then going to a party / the movies maybe.
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Yes, I care about everything that potentially risks their health.
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 333
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
A year or two.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
About 5 dates, I think. That was how it happen in my previous relationship.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
Shared bed with a spare bed room incase we have a fight, or adopt a kid in the future.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
Not really.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
They usually make more money than me ...
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
More options for dates.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
I'm pretty short so most of the guys are taller than me LOL And yeah, I prefer taller guys.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Masculine.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
Depends on our common interests. Me and my ex used to go to the cinemas every weekend cause we both love movies. But sometimes we stay at home, watch movies and [TMI].
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Kind of. I'm trying my best to stay in shape and it would be great if he has the same thought.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 9,929
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1-10 What is a relationship? I'm independent
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Member Since: 8/3/2010
Posts: 71,871
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
Depends on how strong the relationship is. It could literally be a week
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
Depends. If it's a male, 0 is fine. If it's a female, at least 2.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
If it's an apartment I would not mind saving money and sharing a bed. I don't do apartments but if I decided to then money would obviously be a factor so cheaper is better
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
I don't do crude humor like this. If you have to go then go do it in appropriate places (the bathroom) with no announcement. That is a pet peeve of mine I'm classy.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
Well I don't care about that at all. With the career in looking forward to getting I will be making more money than 90% of Americans anyway.
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
I'm a huge sports fan so I don't care!
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Well I don't usually date guys. I prefer girls my size or taller tbh. Guys should be taller (but I'm so short that most people end up being taller than me)
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
For girls, I'd prefer a girly girl but I love tomboys too. For guys, I prefer masculine guys but both are okay to me
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
I would prefer to do whatever my partner wants, I'm flexible
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
They wouldn't be lol. I mean maybe at first but I run on average 15 miles a day and I play tennis daily so tbh you'd have to do it with me to get with me. And if you're doing that, you're not going to be overweight unless you are literally eating wedding cake everyday
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Member Since: 3/26/2012
Posts: 2,909
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
I waited 6 months before me and my boyfriend moved in together, which is pretty speedy but we do everything that way I guess.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
Lol I waited two with my boyfriend.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
We have a one bedroom.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
Lol no, we do all the time.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
No, not at all.
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
Lol no, why would I. He used to play football.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
I like taller. I'm 5'8, he's 6'4
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Doesn't matter, but my bf is extremely masculine.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
Home!
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
No, lol. I've dated overweight guys before and idc.
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Member Since: 4/8/2012
Posts: 2,142
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
Between one or two years.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
2 or 3, it really depends.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
I would want both.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
I don't care about that.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
No. But they need to have a vision about what they want to achieve and go for it.
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
No, they could even try to get me into it after a while, it would be funny.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
The same height or a little shorter, that's so cute.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Masculine.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
50/50, but I'm really extrovert and like social settings so i would prefer the night out i guess, maybe something more intimate and chill after party.
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Slightly overweight? That's perfectly fine. Obese? No way.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 41,181
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
I don't think moving in is a good idea unless you plan to really settle down with that person. I guess 1 year at the very least.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
It kind of depends on the quality of the date. I'd feel comfortable sleeping with someone that I've had 5 good dates with.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
I mean, if you've decided you want to move in together, what's the point of having 2 bedrooms? You either live together or you don't. If I took the leap of faith, we'd sleep in the same bed.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
I would definitely mind farting, but I wouldn't make it a big deal. I'd cringe a little if they announced they have to go #2, but I'd be fine with it at the end of the day.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
Nope
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
Nope. As long as they don't mind that I'm clueless about sports and that I have no interesting in learning about it, it's all good.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Taller, but I wouldn't necessarily reject someone if they were shorter (unless they were under 5' 5'' cause then the difference between us would be too much)
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Um... I don't know tbh. I've never thought about it.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
I'm fine with whatever. Staying home, hanging out at a friend's place, going out alone, going out with friends. As long as it's something we can both enjoy adequately
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
If it messed with their health, I would care, but not because of personal preference obviously. If they're healthy and feel good about themselves, no weight would be considered unattractive to me
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
Posts: 58,053
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
Doesn't depend on the longevity more about... the trust.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
Well I'm gay so 1
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
I'd share a bed
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
Yes unless they are known for being funny and just joking around with it
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
Nah
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
Nah
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Taller. 6"+
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
I don't care about that
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
I'd love to stay home and watch a movie
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Nah
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 3/22/2012
Posts: 53,769
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1) 6 months +
2) 1-2
3) Shared bed
4) nah
5) nah
6) nah
7) Taller (most guys are!)
8) masculine
9) anything is fine; I like good food and cuddling so that
10) if it was unhealthy for them or affected our romantic and casual lives then yes
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ATRL Contributor
Member Since: 8/1/2012
Posts: 15,668
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Originally posted by CriticalHit
1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
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1. 6mo probably
2. Depends on how comfortable I am with them / how prude they are
3. Share a bed duh
4. I'd find it funny. I like humor.
5. I don't give a **** about $$$. I'm planning on doing research and music so I'm already expecting to be broke af.
6. If you like sports too much we're gonna have problems because idk **** about them.
7. I'm not gay - but I prefer a girl shorter than me
8. I prefer feminine women rather than masculine
9. Let's do something crazy. Every friday let's do something new. This friday lets zipline the grand canyon. Next friday let's go river tubing. Next friday let's hike Camelback.
10. I may sound shallow but if you're like 30lb more than me then we're gonna have some problems 
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
Posts: 7,772
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
- Probably a year or something
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
- 4?
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
- Share a bed!
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
- Care yes, but I would probably stop caring after a while
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
- Not at all
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
- Not really, as long as it's not an obsession and we do have other things in common.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
- Taller.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
- Something inbetween tbh
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
- Out for dinner, to our friends, movies, or just being together walking and talking
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
- Nah
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 9/22/2011
Posts: 16,128
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1. How long would you want to date somebody before moving in with them?
It would really depend on how I feel about the guy and our relationship. We'd definitely have to be dating for more than a year.
2. How many dates would you need to go on before you sleep with them?
More than one or two.
3. Would you share a bed with them or get a 2 bedroom if you bought an apartment together?
Shared bed.
4. Would you care if they fart in front of you or announce they have to go #2?
Probably not, if we've been together for a while and we feel comfortable like that.
5. Would you care if they made less money than you (although, they still have a college degree)?
Of course not!
6. Would you care if they are a huge sports fan?
No, he can enjoy what he wants.
7. Would you prefer a guy taller or shorter than you?
Taller or similar in height. He can be a bit shorter than me, but not too much.
8. Would you prefer a guy feminine acting or more masculine?
Leaning towards masculine.
9. Where would you go out to on a typical Friday night? Or would you prefer to stay home?
I'm seriously up for anything, although staying home and watching movies would be cute.
10. Would you care if they were overweight?
Yes, if it is affecting his health.
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