Since I'm gay ill be obviously be just talking on the gay community. On grindr I see many partnered guys on grindr or guys in relationships, I always wondered why don't they just breakup if they clearly want to see other people. But then I wonder that the guy they have now they don't exactly want to lose them since they are a good person. The sex between them may fizzle out so he looks elsewhere. Why is open relationships so common in the gay community and do you support it or not?
As long as everyone knows what they're signing up for I don't see the problem.
A lot of people think open relationships are for them, but then end up getting really jealous and bitter. It's a decision to make after you've had at least one serious relationship IMO.
i couldn't do it, i'd get really uncomfortable. and i don't really think other people should rush into the idea either. i think it's something you have to think about carefully and wait until you have enough experience with relationships to know what you can and can't handle. also, honestly a person being really insistent on having sex with other people is kind of a red flag to me
I would like to try it. God knows I have cheated in the past, so open relationship seems like the right thing for me. The problem is that I can't find a man who would want it.
