Have you lost your mind? Have you ever seen European men in general, not even just gay men? US men actually tend to be more masculine on average compared to other places.
Idk but the American gays that I've met, they're all kind of more feminine than the other countries gays
But the confusing thing is European straight are kinda too fashioned/feminine too. I have a Brit colleague who wear red tight pants all the time, another guy who is Italian has a closet of colorful skinny pants They are all straight