I'm not referring to those who have been abused or rejected because of their sexuality. But I have noticed that an overwhelming amount of gay people have small social circles and don't enjoy interacting with others. Other times, gay people feel the need to act like a prop for females in search of a gay BFF in order to fit in and make friends. Aside from that, they tend to stay in the shadows away from everyone else.

Any particular reason for this? I've wondered.

I have no idea what you're talking about.

I have never observed this supposed trend.

idk it's hard to find people who have the same interests as you

Maybe insecure gays that aren't out yet and are afraid of people finding out. But other than that I've noticed out gay men tend to be quite gregarious and sociable?

What?

I think this just applies to you, sis.

nnn the backfire

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I literally have NEVER seen what the OP is talking about. All the gay people I know IRL are always going out to amusement parks, festivals, movies, concerts, partying, having hookups, and just never really home at all.

Huh? What are you talking about?

Im with my friends hooking right now.

I thought gay people were always accused of being the opposite? What a reverse Warholian expedition.

Hm, I don't think this is a noticeably prevalent thing outside of gay men who were, like you said, rejected due to their sexuality.

Have some of you met gays outside of gay nightclubs or...?

I'm anti-social but it's more to do with my environment tbh. I just can't relate to people here so I prefer to just stay in my room and talk to people online lol

theyre not lol

I've never heard of this nonsense. Personally I've a very sociable person and will interact with anyone. However I still know the difference between a fake person and a real one.

That describes me but I'm not sure about anyone else