How to know top/bottom if you havent done it yet?

Shorter guys expect you to be the top. Plus, bottoming for someone who's a lot shorter is really awkward and difficult, but it's often hard to find someone the same height or taller.

People only care if you are tall down there

It's just a preference. I'm not opposed to topping for the right person, I've just preferred bottoming from experience.

Who is that guy in your primary?

someone write a tragic love story of a 5 foot tall top and a 6 foot tall bottom falling in love

Is primary the mobile one or the desktop one? I forget.

Mobile one

Then comes the 4'11 homewrecker

Shouldn't those expectations be based on mass and not just height? Some 6' 2" bottom could be very slim. And I guess it would be difficult in for a shorter top in certain positions but, like, adapt. Seems unfair and biased.

Goodnight y'all!

this top and bottom talk is making me real glad I'm a girl tbh

Thomas Bukovatz.

Mess @ me almost just posting in the Country Music Discussion thread.

Hey guys I don't know if this is the same in your area, but usually the bottoms where I live are masculine jocks with huge muscles. You know the ones who are always at the gym Is this the same where u live?

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Guernica are you a top?

A lot of the time, it's based on height. I've known guys bigger than me expecting me to top them and I'm just like, "..."

It's easy saying "adapt", but like...

Eh, he looks better in your primary lol

90% of gays are bottoms so 9 out of 10 of the muscular gays will be bottoms. That body type on a bottom seems like a waste to me but I guess some people like it.

Maybe it would be a good idea to wear some eyeshadow to get the message across

When I had Grindr, a lot of the gym bunnies would be "straight-acting looking for dom top" types.