What are some issues you think only LGBT ppl could truly understand?
example: I'm low key panicking right now at the idea that one day i'm going to get to my late twenties, early thirties and my parents will want me to get married and have kids lol..how am I going to break it to them straight up. ugh...:/
Well for one i just realised that when you have kids they aren't automatically gay and if you tried to make them gay it would kind of be like "heterosexual oppression" like
But at the same time you don't want to raise then in a hetero-normanitive way, like gay(and more so gay people) parents have to be really mordern
- being constantly told you're broken
- for the most part even erased from the LGBT+ community itself and replaced by allies
- after telling people that you're happy on your own and you don't want a relationship they tell you to not worry and that you'll find someone eventually
- getting told that your life will end miserably because if you have no family of your own your life basically means nothing and when you're old you'll be lonely and you'll die alone
- being constantly told you're broken
- for the most part even erased from the LGBT+ community itself and replaced by allies
- after telling people that you're happy on your own and you don't want a relationship they tell you to not worry and that you'll find someone eventually - getting told that your life will end miserably because if you have no family of your own your life basically means nothing and when you're old you'll be lonely and you'll die alone
#asexualproblems
this is so sad
ya you asexuals have it rough tbh. ppl are ruthless. some even say its impossible to be asexual
People don't respect the whole "coming out" experience enough.
I have a friend (a very stupid one) and she keeps going "Come out to her, come out to him, come out to your mum!" blah blah blah. Honestly, it is all about timing and I feel like people don't respect it enough. Like honestly, I have friends who I've known for 10+ years I'm not going to tell some ****ing random who I've known for 5 minutes.
Another thing, some people think they can hook you up with their "gay friends". No, you certainly cannot. I am from a country town you see and the gay boys around my age are... lets just say not my type. Just because they're gay doesn't make them attractive so shut up haha.
- being constantly told you're broken
- for the most part even erased from the LGBT+ community itself and replaced by allies
- after telling people that you're happy on your own and you don't want a relationship they tell you to not worry and that you'll find someone eventually
- getting told that your life will end miserably because if you have no family of your own your life basically means nothing and when you're old you'll be lonely and you'll die alone
#asexualproblems
You don't want a physical relationship or don't want any relationship at all?
People don't respect the whole "coming out" experience enough.
I have a friend (a very stupid one) and she keeps going "Come out to her, come out to him, come out to your mum!" blah blah blah. Honestly, it is all about timing and I feel like people don't respect it enough. Like honestly, I have friends who I've known for 10+ years I'm not going to tell some ****ing random who I've known for 5 minutes.
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wait this, me coming out to someone is a personal exp (some would even say selfish). Even if i am in a glass closet i dont need to profess my sexual preference to you unless i fancy you.
ya you asexuals have it rough tbh. ppl are ruthless. some even say its impossible to be asexual
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they really are though. it's incredibly insulting and degrading for someone to deny your existence even though you're right there and telling them that this is real, this is who i am.
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Originally posted by LuLuDrops
You don't want a physical relationship or don't want any relationship at all?
they really are though. it's incredibly insulting and degrading for someone to deny your existence even though you're right there and telling them that this is real, this is who i am.
both
To me, intimacy seems nice but kind of like a cherry on the cake, extra. It's not EVERYTHING and I'm constantly teased for still looking for the one and being celibate until I do. I don't judge them so they should return the favor.
