Bear with me as I attempt to explain myself here, let's talk about gay love.

Ok so, not only does part of you want to get it in with this person that you like, but the other part ENVIES THEM, right? Most of the men I favor from the celeb world are actual people that I strive to look like or act like because they're gorgeous, it's normal.

I end up having these mixed feelings after, I like them but I sort of envy everything about them? Normal heterosexual love doesn't envy the other person (physically/mentally) because they're the opposite gender.

I'm literally skeletal rn, love makes me an angry person.

Are you saying you like a guy and find him hot but at the same time you envy him?

I think you just have a lot of insecurities.

what

MTE.

I don't think I've ever had those feelings, if I like one guy, I don't envy him, in that case I'd envy the guy he's dating for obvious reasons but not him.

I've never had that problem, but your point is interesting.

Love yourself first. After you will be able to love someone else.

I've never envied a crush

I have this problem and I'm aware of it.

You're not alone omg ... it doesn't happen all the time but sometimes there's this feeling that you can't kick that you're envious or even insecure because of them

Stop being Gay and all your problems will go away.

Every. Single. One. Of. Them.

Yes, and I'm literally bugged for an entire week or however long it takes for me to get over him.

edit: Thankfully it never lasts long but it's extremely difficult to deal with.

Not love, but definitely an attraction. Like I've stared at guys in the gym, or in ****, or on Instagram and thought "I don't know if I should feel attracted to you or insecure that I don't look like that. You're so perfect it's confusing "

I haven't thought about it before but this kind of true. When I like a guy I LIKE him and just want to be with him, but if I walk past a super hot guy on the street I can feel both attracted to him and envious.

If I'm attracted to someone, does it mean I envy them? I don't think so.
I know a lot of guys that I'm attracted to and I don't want to look like them, I just want them in my bed. I want to look like an improved version of ME, not anyone else.

I don't want to look like Zac Efron or Matt Bomer or Hugh Jackman, I want them to **** me so hard until the walls fall down. Plain and simple.

I don't think my straight brother envies his girlfriend also, she looks like a cracked out piñata.

I have them feelings too. I'm normally a very jealous person so It's really frustrating to deal with those thoughts.

Ding ding!

Ding ding ding!

G*ys need to realize that once they stop pretending to be G*y it will benefit them.