No it seems kind of fierce. So many young guys want to get with older guys. I'm going to get all that island and ethnic D - yas kweens!

Not worried at all, IT is my field and my partner is in the field too so plan on running a business together in the future. He's more software and I am more hardware so it balances out.

I've always liked guys my age or older personally. I'm not really attracted to younger guys. People usually think I'm the younger guy in my 20's trying to make it. But I am happy to admit that I'm 36 and make lots of money.

As soon as the guys my age and older learn I make more than them they always seem so shocked. For some guys who like the idea of buying young/young-ish-looking black guys, the fact that I have my own money and don't need theirs can be a turn off. So I usually try to not talk about finances right away or tell them what I do unless they specifically ask me.

Not scared. If you're into the hook up scene, well that dies once you hit 23.

I've been alone and miserable for 26 years now so I'm experienced with it. I can deal.

Not if I age well.

I love older guys, I'm in my early 20's and would definitely date someone in there 30/40's. I can't stand guys my age, they're superficial and complete hornballs, as I am too.

But my boyfriend just turned 24, and I love him, but I got lucky.

As for getting scared to be 30, I'm not. I can't wait to be 30, flirty, and thriving.

Also, I plan to be married at 30.

The hook up scene in the gay world never ends.

Well. Kinda. Gay death is a real thing.

I hope I'll have a long term SO by the time i hit 30.

The grind scene thing. Sure it doesn't die but I've noticed that my messaging rate has dropped significantly in the last few years. I've looked 23 since I was 20 so it's not me looking older. It's a mental thing. When I was 20-23 or whatever I wouldn't seriously consider getting with a guy my age now. Sure I got with some older guys. But prowling for men, I wasn't looking at them.

Even though I'm not regularly on Grindr I still go back on from time to time. And the young ones always catch my eye because they're still cute. Men in this area don't age well. They let themselves get fat or they lose their looks. It's a struggle

Are you guys serious? Men in their 30's/40's are the hottest

!!!! It is the prime age for a man! Like seriously. Get a life. Man's life starts when he is 30