As I've gotten older, I've realized it gets harder and harder to maintain a large group of friends. Most of mine dispersed and are scattered now, so I feel like I hardly ever see any of my friends. I? have maybe 1 or 2 that I hang out with regularly, but for the most part I've become kind of a loner.

I used to hate it, but I'm starting to actually prefer being alone. People can just be so annoying and complicated and I feel like I can never rely on anyone, so I've just started to do my own thing.


Are you a loner or a social butterfly?

Basically everything the OP said.

Loner. I've had the same 2 best friends since high school which was 10 years ago. Everyone is is just an acquaintance or people I mingle with for networking to further my career. Nothing more nothing less. Especially in this gay lifestyle. Too messy. I'm fine with tha very few friends I have

yesss

Well, I went through a bad breakup recently, and I've just stopped doing things and going places, so I'm kinda a loner right now -- but I'm social when I want to be, it just takes me a while to warm up to people.

i try hard at being a loner but people just gravitate towards me and it's annoying as hell

The OP is basically me tbh. Cant say it any better.

I remember when I used to rely on my friends and had fun with them most of the time, at daytime and called them at night.

I got betrayed by so called friends so many time since I grew up a bit ... now I dont really believe in real friends anymore.

I can relate to the OP.

its really hard for me though its really lonely

the sooner you realize you can only depend in yourself, the better your life will be

Yes I am. Sometimes I like it, sometimes it sucks.

No, I'm like the gay Rita Ora.

A loner. Get me drunk and I'm a social butterfly.

Same.


It's funny cuz I actually really enjoy meeting and conversing with new people, but at the same time it's so much easier for me to just...not. Everyone around me is just lame lately. I need to move tbh.

Yes and I like it that way tbh. I've had so many fake friends in the past that I don't even try anymore.

Im a social butterfly, i feel like a loner sometimes but not by choice. Am i the only one who feels like they dont have a BEST friend? I feel like all my good friends have another friend who is their #1. I feel like a 3rd wheel a lot