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Discussion: Worst Date you've been on?
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Worst Date you've been on?
I just went on a really bad date and I'm pissed.
So share. Discuss.
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He took to the movies and kept making gay jokes through out the entire movie. We were watching 'Spy' and one scene there was a nude picture of a guys pickle and he winks at me and says really loud "I bet you wanna taste that" and tries to kiss me. keep in mind we are sitting next to a lot of people. I was embarrassed because everyone started looking at me and laughed. Then he kept trying to put his arm around me and kiss me and would just keep staring at me for no reason.  He didn't even watch the movie he just stared at me. Then in the middle of the movie he just whispers in my ear "I'm so ****ing horny" and he starts reaching for my pants and everyone is just staring at us. Worst night ever. I had to delete his number...
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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what kind of dates? Dates that include talk or no talk? I think this needs to be clear.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by ontherocks
what kind of dates? Dates that include talk or just hook-ups? I think this needs to be clear.
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Both I guess. I meant more of just talking but it can be both.
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Member Since: 4/20/2012
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Originally posted by Bulldog
He took to the movies and kept making gay jokes through out the entire movie. We were watching 'Spy' and one scene there was a nude picture of a guys pickle and he winks at me and says really loud "I bet you wanna taste that" and tries to kiss me. keep in mind we are sitting next to a lot of people. I was embarrassed because everyone started looking at me and laughed. Then he kept trying to put his arm around me and kiss me and would just keep staring at me for no reason. He didn't even watch the movie he just stared at me. Then in the middle of the movie he just whispers in my ear "I'm so ****ing horny" and he starts reaching for my pants and everyone is just staring at us. Worst night ever. I had to delete his number...
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That's why I make sure to talk to the person online for a few days before going on a date. It's a great way to get a good idea about their personality.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by RideOrDie
That's why I make sure to talk to the person online for a few days before going on a date. It's a great way to get a good idea about their personality.
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But sis I did he seemed so relaxed and calm and we talked for like a week but when we went out he just got so lame and now he won't stop texting me. I actually left out the part where I tried to go to the restroom during the movie and he followed me in the restroom to have some "fun" 
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Member Since: 2/26/2012
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The guy was PERCHED at my place for 2 hours even tho I made it clear I was NOT interested. Tragic.
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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So this one time I went on a date. It was 5 years ago and I had just come out to my parents. I've always been very open with my mom about dating etc, so I told her I was going.
Anyways, we went for dinner and then went over to his place. This is where the MESS happens.
He wasn't out yet, and he thought his housemates (student home) would bully him if they knew. I had just gone through that process myself so I was like, yea cool, I get that. That being said, we were going at it in his room when his roommate knocked on the door. And he like put his finger on his lips, telling me not to make a sound.... Was kinda rude but you know, I played along since he told me about his situation.
So he wanted his roommates to think we had already left.. And I was like sure, as long as I can take my last bus back home, which departed at like 00:30 (it was around 09:30 pm at this point). And he was like, "yea sure sure. They will go out anyways so you can just leave afterwards.". I was starting to get bothered at this point as I wanted to LEAVE and I had told my mom I'd be home at 10. Sidenote, I couldn't leave the house unnoticed because there was a guard dog in the house that would bark/ bite people who were unfamilliar to him. A MESS....
So hour after hour passed and they would not leave... And I wanted to leave but he actually locked his door and wouldn't unlock it. I had to call my mom, explaining everything to her... try explaining above in a convincing way.. she believed me anyways and I spend the night, on his COUCH.... because he felt it was awkward to sleep in the same bed.. Well ok, that;s my story. Needless to say I erased that loser from my life. He does still send me messages sometimes, definition of desperate.
Another time I got drugged/ harrassed + one time I went to some festival with friend of the guy I had been seeing for 4/5 months. They would not know who I was and ask me questions like: "So are you seeing anyone?". Meaning he didn't tell his BEST friends he was seeing me. Even though we were dating for over 4 months.
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Originally posted by Clarksonator
So this one time I went on a date. It was 5 years ago and I had just come out to my parents. I've always been very open with my mom about dating etc, so I told her I was going.
Anyways, we went for dinner and then went over to his place. This is where the MESS happens.
He wasn't out yet, and he thought his housemates (student home) would bully him if they knew. I had just gone through that process myself so I was like, yea cool, I get that. That being said, we were going at it in his room when his roommate knocked on the door. And he like put his finger on his lips, telling me not to make a sound.... Was kinda rude but you know, I played along since he told me about his situation.
So he wanted his roommates to think we had already left.. And I was like sure, as long as I can take my last bus back home, which departed at like 00:30 (it was around 09:30 pm at this point). And he was like, "yea sure sure. They will go out anyways so you can just leave afterwards.". I was starting to get bothered at this point as I wanted to LEAVE and I had told my mom I'd be home at 10. Sidenote, I couldn't leave the house unnoticed because there was a guard dog in the house that would bark/ bite people who were unfamilliar to him. A MESS....
So hour after hour passed and they would not leave... And I wanted to leave but he actually locked his door and wouldn't unlock it. I had to call my mom, explaining everything to her... try explaining above in a convincing way.. she believed me anyways and I spend the night, on his COUCH.... because he felt it was awkward to sleep in the same bed.. Well ok, that;s my story. Needless to say I erased that loser from my life. He does still send me messages sometimes, definition of desperate.
Another time I got drugged/ harrassed + one time I went to some festival with friend of the guy I had been seeing for 4/5 months. They would not know who I was and ask me questions like: "So are you seeing anyone?". Meaning he didn't tell his BEST friends he was seeing me. Even though we were dating for over 4 months.
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I could write a book 'bout it.
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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EW. Nothing as bad as that; I'm sorry that you had to endure such a horrible experience. I've been on dates which have been awkward as ****; where the guy is incredibly reluctant to make any kind of half way decent conversation and dates where the guy has looked absolutely nothing like his pictures... the worst experience I've had with a guy came from a hook up gone horribly horribly wrong. He talked to me like a was piece of dirt... I felt like a flithy piece of used and abused man meat after that encounter...
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Member Since: 8/18/2013
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Originally posted by ChandlerBing
The guy was PERCHED at my place for 2 hours even tho I made it clear I was NOT interested. Tragic.
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Just pretend your ill... Indigestion usually does the job pretty well.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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He spoke next to no English and was incredibly unfriendly & rude, but for whatever reason, expected me to bring him home with me after dinner. I had to have a friend call me and pretend she was in the hospital. He was the strangest eater, worst tipper and so socially awkward. I still cringe thinking that I was seen in public with him I also had a guy invite his extended family over during the date & they all got stoned. He proceeded to fall asleep mid-date.
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Member Since: 12/21/2011
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Quote:
Originally posted by Clarksonator
So this one time I went on a date. It was 5 years ago and I had just come out to my parents. I've always been very open with my mom about dating etc, so I told her I was going.
Anyways, we went for dinner and then went over to his place. This is where the MESS happens.
He wasn't out yet, and he thought his housemates (student home) would bully him if they knew. I had just gone through that process myself so I was like, yea cool, I get that. That being said, we were going at it in his room when his roommate knocked on the door. And he like put his finger on his lips, telling me not to make a sound.... Was kinda rude but you know, I played along since he told me about his situation.
So he wanted his roommates to think we had already left.. And I was like sure, as long as I can take my last bus back home, which departed at like 00:30 (it was around 09:30 pm at this point). And he was like, "yea sure sure. They will go out anyways so you can just leave afterwards.". I was starting to get bothered at this point as I wanted to LEAVE and I had told my mom I'd be home at 10. Sidenote, I couldn't leave the house unnoticed because there was a guard dog in the house that would bark/ bite people who were unfamilliar to him. A MESS....
So hour after hour passed and they would not leave... And I wanted to leave but he actually locked his door and wouldn't unlock it. I had to call my mom, explaining everything to her... try explaining above in a convincing way.. she believed me anyways and I spend the night, on his COUCH.... because he felt it was awkward to sleep in the same bed.. Well ok, that;s my story. Needless to say I erased that loser from my life. He does still send me messages sometimes, definition of desperate.
Another time I got drugged/ harrassed + one time I went to some festival with friend of the guy I had been seeing for 4/5 months. They would not know who I was and ask me questions like: "So are you seeing anyone?". Meaning he didn't tell his BEST friends he was seeing me. Even though we were dating for over 4 months.
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Member Since: 12/21/2011
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I can't wait until I can come out and date. I reckon I'll be the messy one during the date.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by LoveInStereo
He spoke next to no English and was incredibly unfriendly & rude, but for whatever reason, expected me to bring him home with me after dinner. I had to have a friend call me and pretend she was in the hospital. He was the strangest eater, worst tipper and so socially awkward. I still cringe thinking that I was seen in public with him I also had a guy invite his extended family over during the date & they all got stoned. He proceeded to fall asleep mid-date. |
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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It was last week, actually. He just didn't speak, and not because he was shy, but because he was BORING! He couldn't finish one sentence and had this annoying ass accent so on one hand it's a good thing he didn't talk much. He'd always complain the weather was too hot, had terrible fashion taste, ugly hair, but really the worst thing about him was that he was boring. I hate boring people.
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