Well I find shallowness ugly. For me, ugly isn't related to appearance. I would never judge anyone based on their appearance. Personalities are attractive to me.
I don't believe anyone is ugly looks wise. It's the personality that can be ugly. But if i'm attracted to someone and we vibe and have deep meaningful conversations then that's great. I once talked to someone who lied about things he liked to say we had things in common and that's just low.
If I was allowed to have "friends" over whenever I needed, and we slept in separate rooms so they couldn't touch me while I slept? Yes. Yes, I would sacrifice my joy for unlimited comfort and good karma for blessing an ugly person with a trophy husband.
