Lol @ your delusion thinking that smart = confident.

The most confident people I have met in my life have also been the stupidest.

The latter.

lol @ people thinking confident=smart.

Or you could be like me & have both

low confidence since i'm the same

Oh, I don't really care I guess.

As long as they're funny.

I mean

I've met some very confident, outspoken gay guys who tried to hit on me and not in a million years would I have done anything with them. They had all the confidence in the world, but that doesn't mean I'd ever want anything with them. I like beautiful things, that includes whoever I'm having sex with or my partner. And I'm in my early 20s so I could give a rat's ass about 'beauty fades'. I'll worry about that when I'm 70, right now I'd rather enjoy amazing sex, and amazing sex is only truly amazing sex if you're really into the person, and they're really into you. And no one is really into ugly. For a partner of course personality, intellect, being a good person matters and I'd never do without, but I would never date someone truly ugly either. I want to be able to take a selfie of us and revel in how good we look. I want to be able to get turned on and desire that person.