Do you see sexuality as something purely black-and-white or something that can change over the course of time? Are people born straight/gay, determined by genes? Or is it possible to change, either over time or because of a profound life experience?

I personally consider sexuality to be like personality. It develops because of nature and nurture, and sometimes we can make the decision to change, either actively or subconsciously. I think puberty is a very integral part of that realization, but like personality it keeps evolving over time. You can't always say that you were the same person inside that you were as a kid/teen/young adult. Therefore I consider sexuality fluid, and not something you can label and put in a box.

It's the only way sexuality can be imo

Human sexuality is incredibly complicated and incredibly fluid.

It depends on the person but usually it is fluid.

For some people it can be, for others it is rigid and never bending. I'm bisexual and sometimes I feel more attracted/drawn to one gender over the other and then the next week it'll switch but for others they always feel attracted to the same thing and there's never a change. I hate it when people try to suggest "everyone's bi" or something along those lines, like no, some people really are only attracted to one gender their whole life and there's nothing wrong with that.

Humans are incredibly complex. I've never understood the need to pinpoint and label them.

I need to share something. After a really intense leg day, when I'm pumped up with tons of testosterone and really feeling myself I find myself wanting some poontang. I find this immensely troubling since I'm into the D and not the P.



It's definitely fluid.

But that defeats the entire statement itself though.

Not counting asexuals, how does sexuality function for humanity as a whole?

Obviously. Maybe not for everyone but for many

I cackled a biT and then realized I feel the same way.

It's a spectrum.

I don't wanna compare sexuality to mental illnesses, but recent studies are also now declaring certain mental disorders as a spectrum. I forget what the book is called but that's what research is showing.

Yes, sexuality fluid is common.

Mine isn't fluid

so depends on the person

You're on the other end of the spectrum.

yes

You told me you were into women

No. You are either gay, straight, or bisexual. It's fixed babe.