Okay, so one of my classmates that is in the same major as me rented a new apartment right next door to mine. I've had a crush on him ever since Freshmen year (we're rising Seniors) and I kind of think he's gay as he never mentioned dating any girl and is way too nice and respectful to be a straight. I was running outside yesterday and as he was walking to his car we met and talked for a bit. I was a sweaty mess already so it was kind of embarrassing and I was blubbering something stupid before he left. He's literally the cutest nerdy type guy. He's into anime, video games but is really nice and funny too. His smile makes my heart leap and I just want to hug him forever. How do I get the courage to ask him out or just hang out for a night or something without serving autism teas? I remember a time where we were in the same room studying and he offered me his jacket because it was really cold in that room and it was literally the nicest thing a guy has ever done for me. Omg I was so obsessed with his smell from the jacket that I couldn't concentrate on studying so I left only after 5 minutes and almost took the jacket with me. He would always offer me stuff during class if I sat near him. He also has gotten buff the past year and he's serving me arms that can punch my face realness. Give me tips ya'll, before I graduate college and he's no longer around me.

Yes, I'm kind of drunk.

Okay, just stalked his facebook (he didn't have one until last month, I think he deactivated it before?) and there was a status update with him sharing some news about gay marriage.

Do straights do that?

Originally posted by jonasha Okay, just stalked his facebook (he didn't have one until last month, I think he deactivated it before?) and there was a status update with him sharing some news about gay marriage. Do straights do that?

I'm not gonna do that, I don't want him finding out on ATRL if he's a hunty on the inside.

I literally cannot walk to my house on the side his apartment is in so I got the long way which takes an extra 3 minutes of walking. Just imagining his face gives me chills on the inside, he's like the perfect guy because he's not really 100% attractive, but he's adorable and he's the nicest person I've ever met in my life. His voice is so soft and he's always smiling/happy about stuff. I feel like we would be a perfect match and I can honestly envision us living together until the end of time hoping that eventually our state will recognize gay marriage and we can be one of the first couples to marry.

I kind of want to go right now and invite myself over to his house. He told me he had nothing to do tonight and was just going to watch netflix. I have nothing to do this night and am just chilling out watching television and gushing about him on this site.

I need some tips on what to say.

I'm only kind of drunk. I might do some shots before I walk to his house and talk.

Originally posted by jonasha I kind of want to go right now and invite myself over to his house. He told me he had nothing to do tonight and was just going to watch netflix. I have nothing to do this night and am just chilling out watching television and gushing about him on this site. I need some tips on what to say.

Originally posted by jonasha I'm only kind of drunk. I might do some shots before I walk to his house and talk.

I've been classmates with him for the last 3 years, I know him generally but not close friends. We already had several conversations together but lately, I've been LONGING for him, like I actually have dreams of him so I know my inner psyche wants him. I thought he was just kewt when I first saw him, but after learning his personality and interests, he became really attractive to me. He just has a positive vibe, isn't mean spirited or bitchy/douchey and is really intelligent. He's everything I want in a guy and there's a strong chance that he's gay. I'm really fickle too, but I never felt this way about a guy, I get panic attacks just thinking about him.

Well it'll be no easy task.

Ya'll, I need help in initiating contact with him. I'm going to go and knock on his door, but I need a script on what I should say without looking like a damn child molester/date rapist.

Just let him know you're a gay. Honestly that is the first and easiest way to get the ball rolling. A casual comment about an actor or musician should do the tricK.