It's just a phrase. It's not being used towards gays in a derogatory manner. He's going to have to get over it.
It's an expression that has always been belittling to the idea of being gay, not to mention one that is crazy outdated. People who still use it are the ones that need to get over this tacky phrase.
It's an expression that has always been belittling to the idea of being gay, not to mention one that is crazy outdated. People who still use it are the ones that need to get over this tacky phrase.
Nope, the meaning of the word has changed. It no longer refers to actual gay people. It's not offensive.