Faking to a degree. The choice is between middle of the road fem trying to act straight and failing miserably or just accepting it and acting even more fem for whatever benefits it brings.
A lot of gays suddenly become super feminine once they come out.
Probably because they're fighting it and suppressing it so that they seem like "normal guys" and then when they're out they feel free to be who they've always wanted to be?
Maybe a small percentage of gays fake it, but you are who you are. I came out (well, got outed) when I was 16 and I've been super-feminine, for as long as I can remember, way before then. I remember finger-snaping all the gurls when I was 11. So no.
Yes. I actually have a really deep voice and deeply enjoy many manly activities such as whipping people with towels in the locker room after an intense footballing session and working on cars, but I know that too many people in society would accept me, and I can't have that, so I made a conscious decision to start liking girly things such as the color pink and I have to force myself to sound feminine. I always get such a rush when people tell me to act "like a man"