Originally posted by Suede

So questioning the origins of my sexuality suddenly makes me homophobic? Stop being so insecure.

Originally posted by Koons

There's definitely some kind of link there with many, many gays. Every single guy I've dated either grew up without a father or had a ****** father/ a father that walked out on the family.

I've always found it strange though cause I have a wonderful relationship with my father (makes me realise how lucky I am) as well as with my mother. They have both always been very accepting of me and we are a very loving family (both before and after I realised I was gay)

So while I do think there is a link, I don't think it applies to EVERY gay guy.

Originally posted by Shaliydah88

I wasn't calling you homophobic, I was stating a fact. Being gay doesn't make it impossible for you to be homophobic.

Originally posted by ClarksonSlays

I've lived with my mom pretty much my entire life and hated my step-dad so that's me too.

Originally posted by Suede

But that's so abstract and unscientific though but do you I guess!