Pffffffftttt last year when I had to go to church at Christmas I went on Grindr the entire time and I wasn't even SLIGHTLY subtle about it. And the church was packed so everyone around me could see me scrolling through countless photos of shirtless torsos and penises. I was standing way up the back near the entrance though, because I couldn't get a seat where my family was sitting, it was that packed. One woman even said "excuse me can you please have some respect and not do that here?" and everyone turned around and looked at me.
I gave her the dirtiest look and carried on grinding.
According to basically every credible source on child psychology, it's abuse.
I was spanked as a child, and sure, I'm fine now. However, my anecdote doesn't outweigh the mountains of research and evidence against physical discipline.
I rather to be slapped on face than no money, no smartphone or WiFi. Yeah, my parent used to smack or slap me during my childhood and thank god I'm a human right now not a stupid moron.
Discipline if he's misbehaving, sometimes kids don't want to understand that what they're doing are wrong no matter how much you tried to explain. Of course slapping your kids just to release frustration is abuse
So many people became d-bags because they're parents gave them free pass. I was slapped when I a kid, and I'm totally fine
I'll always remember that day when I was the MET and saw a kid slapping his mom, she was scared, this kid was probably 5. He deserved discipline, you don't do that, I'm sorry
I remember when I was like 8 or 9 and I was mad and crying at some thing, and I decided to yell at my dad because he was yelling at me in my face... Then he bitch slapped the **** out of me and I never yelled at him again lol.
The reason why this upcoming generation of kids are turning out to be super-sensitive smart asses is because of the lack of acceptable physical discipline. We now live in a generation of "everyone gets a trophy just for attending" and "slapping your child is a form of scarring and humiliation".
You're doing your child a disservice when you allow them to get something they don't deserve (i.e. a trophy for doing nothing) or not getting something when they deserve it (i.e. a disciplinary slap/smack)
