Brokeback Mountain is obviously better (hello, Oscar noms) and more important, but The Notebook is like the definitive post-Titanic romance film and it's probably more "iconic."

Brokeback Mountain was boring tbh

The Notebook > Bareback Mountain

However, they are both incredibly boring.

i love both but id say The Notebook is my favorite & more iconic

I've seen only The Notebook but I didn't really like it that much.

Only on ATRL would Brokeback Mountain be winning this comparison

BBHMM

The Notebook is a chic-flick. People refer to it as a joke. Brokeback CHANGED the game. It was scandalous and shocking.

BBM >

Brokeback Mountain is constantly being referenced. So that, I guess. I haven't watched either, my vote is bias

The Notebook wipes it out.

BM, it has the better story, better casting, better visuals, was Oscar nominated and broke some boundaries.
The Notebook is the most basic romance movie I ever seen in my life. It's not even cute, it's cringeworthy