I feel like this explanation was unnecessary and is just going to cause more problems for her. You shouldn't have to justify who you date, especially not to a bunch of people who don't know you.
That said, I do get what she's saying to an extent, but it's a bit hypocritical for her to lump all black men into the same category when she's always bitching about white people lumping all blacks into the same category. Like there aren't white men who take advantage of black women too? In fact, many whites are more likely to (and do) date a black person simply out of fetish, rather than because they actually care for them. Just because they're white and rich doesn't mean they will treat you better. Just look at Donald Sterling and his mistress.
I'm not saying the men she dates are like that, but she's really walking a fine line here.
Everything she says directly contradicts something else. Not even her stans can defend this. But serve those urban bops sis.