You have to keep them (the boys) professional. They can’t help if they get aroused. Every time we laid there he kept talking to his little male member…no no before it grew up, before it expanded.” She said Terrence would talk to his male member to make sure he wouldn’t get aroused. So she said, “Let me help you, so every time he would get on top of me I would say ‘Daddy why are you on top of me? Where is mommy? Why is the door closed? (in a baby voice) And it worked!”