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News: Daughter of Two Moms Comes Out Against Gay Marriage: Update
Member Since: 10/12/2010
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So she's against gay marriage because she's hurt that her dad left her?
What the **** did she expect her mom to do?
This bitch is lucky that she even had a second parent that loved her, in many cases this is not the situation at all.
Ungrateful tbh.
She also sounds really stupid for her age.
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Originally posted by OnlyXtina
I'm strongly against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
I dont think gay people should be allowed to have children unless there is an opposite sex acting as the childs third parent.
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SMH you are disgusting.
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Member Since: 3/8/2012
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Someone needs a wake up call
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Member Since: 8/31/2012
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Originally posted by Kali.
Wow some of you guys are disgusting.
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How edgy.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Wow.
But then she's not just against gay marriage, she's against two women or two men raising kids. Period.
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Member Since: 3/5/2014
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Originally posted by Kali.
Wow some of you guys are disgusting.
And you claim that right wingers are the hateful bigots |
This is a dumb comment. Considering ATRL is filled with LGBT people, how do you expect people to react? This woman is going against the very thing so many of us here want when we get older. Are we supposed to be like, "sure, I'm totally okay with you devaluing my life and future parenting"?
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by theoyella jukebox
How edgy.
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How true, did not know the republican party's closeted kids were in atrl
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Member Since: 4/10/2012
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Ungrateful bitch I would not have minded if my mama liked cooch bc my dad is kinda trash tbh
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by OnlyXtina
I'm strongly against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
I dont think gay people should be allowed to have children unless there is an opposite sex acting as the childs third parent.
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You are plain ignorant, I wont try to change your views but let me point out something...
Madonna's mother dies whenshe was young, obviously at that age she would have nothing but dreamy-happy memories of her, the void was bound to be created...
Also, her father, according to her was not much involved with her when she was growing up...She did not have a loving childhood.
You are comparing this to a family where the parents are willing to do anything to make the child live a comfortable safe and happy life.
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Member Since: 1/1/2014
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Originally posted by w.h.o
kind of insulting to all the single mothers/fathers out there smh. You DON'T need both parents/
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I think the ideal unit is a mother and a father. Because if you had two good ones, them they can both contribute a different kind of love and attention.
I do honestly think that a girl growing up with two dads, might miss out on having a mom. Especially if her close friends and family do have moms. I couldn't imagine imagine not having a mom. A dad just isn't the same.
If a gay couple chooses to adopt a child, then that's perfectly fine. The child didn't have a family unit anyways.
But to have a child via IVF or whatever, and then kind of "deny" the child it's biological mom or dad.. It bothers me. It's like the gay parents are more thinking about having a child and their own wants, than really caring about what might have been better for the child.
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Member Since: 10/12/2010
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Originally posted by OnlyXtina
I'm strongly against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
I dont think gay people should be allowed to have children unless there is an opposite sex acting as the childs third parent.
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BYE at this entire post and I don't even want kids.
I get where you're coming from but you forget that most of the time it's not even a parent's wish to raise a kid alone or with a new person who acts like the second parent.
You don't create a child with the intention of getting a divorce, a separation or the child getting abandoned by one of the parents.
Or in some cases, a divorce because one of the parents turns out to be gay.
Don't forget that just because you have a child, that doesn't mean that you actually have to forget your own life.
A child should be lucky if it has loving parents, even if they're same sex, that doesn't make it worse.
There are kids with no parents at all, who have to survive alone, that's WAY worse than this 'issue'.
+ Imagine getting a new straight father or mother who's highly abusive to the child, this would be the step parent from the original parent's new relationship.
That would be better than a safe, loving same sex couple who loves the child, just because they're straight and represent the classical roles?
Get out of here w/ that ********, sis, you and the writer's not making ANY sense.
It's extremely disrespectful to the parent who tries to live her/his life while taking good care of her/his kid.
(+ Madonna actually knew her mother died so that was bound to happen, maybe it was the same for this girl.
Although she knows her father was a dick since he abandoned her so there should be no reason to long for him, she just didn't get over it yet.
If you grew up with same sex parents then those are your normal parents, you don't miss a thing, let me tell you that.)
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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You don't need both a mother and father to raise a child, I know that from personal experience. Not because my parents are gay but because my mother is a single parent. Both me and my sister have turned out amazingly, so what she's saying is ********.
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Member Since: 3/15/2013
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Originally posted by Kali.
Wow some of you guys are disgusting.
And you claim that right wingers are the hateful bigots |
Why? Because we call her stupid ?
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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Originally posted by Kali.
Wow some of you guys are disgusting.
And you claim that right wingers are the hateful bigots |
That's because they are. Intolerance for bigotry, believe it or not, is not as bad as intolerance for persecuted minorities.
And no, right-wingers do not fall under persecuted minorities.
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Member Since: 8/17/2013
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Originally posted by OnlyXtina
I'm strongly against gay parenting aka gay people who have kids, but not gay marriage or being gay itself. My believes are that a child needs both sexes as parenting figures, two men can never replace having a mom or two women can never replace having a dad.
The child might be brought up well, but they always feel they have a missing part in their life, a hole, because they never had one of their parents sexes in their life.
Its the same as being brought up by a single parent, the child always said how they had suffer not having the other parent with them and finding it difficult not having a father or a mother figure in their life.
Thats why there are two sexes in the first place, thats why they can make babies and not gay parents. Because both sexes have important value in the child and the person growing up.
How would a girl feel not having a mother, something thats so important for a woman itself, to look up to your mother, her teaching her daughter everything about being a girl and someday that girl will also be a mother. A second father can never replace that.
Just look at Madonna how she has sufferen not having a mother, and how it was a challenge for her becoming a mother because she didnt have one growing up.
It isnt about that they can give the child a loving life, because no matter what, that child will always feel something is missing. Because nothing can replace each other.
I dont think gay people should be allowed to have children unless there is an opposite sex acting as the childs third parent.
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Are your parents gay or did your mother/father raise you on their own? If no, then how would you know about any of this?
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Member Since: 8/19/2013
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She's so confused. She wanted a dad, so does alot of kids. It has nothing to do with her mother being gay, it's kind of ****** that she is taking out her anger with her dads absence on her mother and the entire gay community. She's such a fraud, I'd be embarrassed to call this woman my child.
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Member Since: 4/28/2012
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I agree with her points, but I don't agree to fight against marriage equality. I support human-human marriage because I support equality. But humans are meant to have a mother-figure and a father-figure, preferably being their two biological parents. The absence of a father is one of the most common difficulties people struggle with that lasts their whole lives.
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Member Since: 1/2/2014
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Originally posted by Bang Up
This is a dumb comment. Considering ATRL is filled with LGBT people, how do you expect people to react? This woman is going against the very thing so many of us here want when we get older. Are we supposed to be like, "sure, I'm totally okay with you devaluing my life and future parenting"?
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You can say that you disagree with what she has to say and I do understand that this forum is pretty one-sided. However, telling someone they should die, kill themselves, etc. is classless and low. People are allowed to have different opinions and not be treated like that for them. Unless they are Westboro Baptist Church or something, but this woman is clearly not. As a conservative, I never said or even THOUGHT something like this about a gay person, or a liberal in general, unless they openly stated that they wished me death or w/e. I think this woman has the right to voice her opinion on this matter, especially given her family background.
Also, from what I got from this article, she isn't saying that she is against gay marriage because her dad left her. She just said that her mother's partner couldn't replace a father-figure, which she felt that she needed. I haven't read her entire essay but I kind of feel like the same logic could be applied if her mom got herself a different man? Unless she didn't miss her dad and she just wanted a male figure in her family life... idk. I would have to read the whole thing.
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Member Since: 8/31/2012
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Originally posted by Qwerty1234
But to have a child via IVF or whatever, and then kind of "deny" the child it's biological mom or dad.. It bothers me. It's like the gay parents are more thinking about having a child and their own wants, than really caring about what might have been better for the child.
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The biological mom or dad is their real parent? Not the people who raised them, took care of them, fed them, clothed them, bathed them? 
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Originally posted by artpop
Hope she dies
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I'm on board with this.Ungrateful self!
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