Did you ever have a stalker?
I just got out of the relationship (together for like 2 months) and when we broke up I told him I don't want to see him anymore. Now he's sending all kinds of messages to my roommates (asking where I am and sh**), I see him all the time near my apartment and bump into him all over the town. If we're in the same club he just sits by the bar and stares at me. I know he's bipolar and I'm kinda creeped out.
Should I be worried? How to deal? What would you do?

Yes my boyfriends dog Marley loves stalking me

Edit: this made me sound stupid really

Yes.

.aR stalked me and found my FB AND threatened me....mods still refused to do anything about it

Yes, I gave it to him one time a year ago and he hasn't been able to let it go even tho I want no part of ha! Everytime he comes down from college he hits me up and he even came to my work TWICE

How you dealt with that?

Like the same situation. I don't know how to deal with it.

No, I'm not that popular

I don't know if this qualifies tho but here it is anyway.

I remember being followed once. I was at the park, and I was on the way home. The park is around ten minutes walking distance. I know the faces of my neighbors. And I was on the way home, I noticed one guy following me from the park. I'm five minutes away from the park, and he was still following me. I am near my home, and I realized he was still following me. Before I turned around the corner from my house, what I did was went straight ahead, to my friends house, acting like I am going somewhere else. I turned around, he saw me, and he went away.

I was sixteen at that time, and somehow, it still bothers me.

I get you. It's really disturbing to think someone is following you and watching you without you even noticing. Like I'm going full paranoid

YES he added me on fb before Christmas and kept on messaging me, I just ignored him bc he looked like an old fugly paedophile!! Anyway he rang me before and I answered it as he had the called ID an unknown, and he was telling me he was in my street and asking what number did I live in and would I come out and meet him

You don't want that, believe me.

Holy sh**, this is scary.

I stalk my first crush. Until he had enough and asked me to stop.

We never went out tho he wanted it bad for a while so I finally gave it to him..I ran into him last week at the movies and he pretended like he didn't know me which kind of pissed me off but then again at least he's over me (hopefully). Just keep ignoring and he'll eventually get bored

Yeah I'm doing that, I even blocked his number. Hope he'll just leave me alone.

I'm not sure about that, but have you talked to him after the break-up? Have him admitted to a psychiatrist.

Well I explained to him why I don't want to be in a relationship and he begged me to think again. I really tried to explain why to him but he just doesn't want to let it go.

I was being facetious

Ya, me too. She's so pathetic.

Let me tell you something about her.
We were best friends in middle school. I know, right? It's so embarrassing. I don't even... Whatever. So then in eighth grade, I started going out with my first boyfriend Kyle who was totally gorgeous but then he moved to Indiana, and she was like, weirdly jealous of him. Like, if I would blow her off to hang out with Kyle, she'd be like, "Why didn't you call me back?" And I'd be like, "Why are you so obsessed with me?"

So then, for my birthday party, which was an all-girls pool party, I was like, " I can't invite you, because I think you're lesbian." I mean I couldn't have a lesbian at my party. There were gonna be girls there in their *bathing suits*. I mean, right? She was a LESBIAN. So then her mom called my mom and started yelling at her, it was so retarded. And then she dropped out of school because no one would talk to her, and she came back in the fall for high school, all of her hair was cut off and she was totally weird, and now I guess she's on crack.

So scary. Be careful!