I rushed a couple frats at my university due to curiosity. If you ever want to be inside of a cesspool of misogyny, lawsuits, hazing, and hegemonic masculinity then by all means join one. But if you respect yourself and the women in your life, then dont

I'm worried about that too. As if I wasn't bullied enough in high school.

I go to a university in Missouri, and I'm not in a frat. It kinda sucks because only frat guys are allowed in their own parties (no non-frat guys can attend frat parties basically). So I can only to go house parties. They're better anyway.

But I don't like frats because they don't allow you to be who you are.