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Originally posted by Cap10Planet
Y'all made it seem like Matt Bomer came out from the get-go. He hid it until he realized that he didn't want to (or couldn't hide it) anymore. It wasn't a "non-issue" to him when he was hiding it.
The fact that a bunch of gays sit up here and demand that a respectable gay should come out to be considered "real", then when one does (in his own way), you accuse him of trying to get fame or whatever. Gays will never be satisfied.
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Originally posted by Cap10Planet
You don't know me or anything about me. A grown ass man doesn't need you to tell him how to reveal his sexuality. It's at his discretion to choose the way he wants it to be revealed. Who are you? Whether or not it's PR driven doesn't change any of that. He has more to lose or gain than you do. It's you who need an inspiration, not me. Now as you were.
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THIS SO ****ING MUCH.
Like seriously, why is it always the same negative people in these threads? I got love for all my lgbt sistren but why can't you guys just be happy for the other men in your community coming out and living their lives how they want?
You all complain about how there's no LGBT representation in the media.
We get Adam Lambert: "Nope. Waaaaay too gay. Next."
We get Sam Smith: "Nope. Appeals too much to str8s. Omg he used to be such a queen! He should stop hiding who he really is. Also too fat and ugly. Next."
We get Jussie Smollet: "Nope. Not gay enough. He's trying too hard to keep it quiet. It's a PR stunt. Next."
Over here like a buncha Goldilocks lookin motha****ers
What exactly do you want? I'm asking because I sincerely would like to know. What exactly do those of you who hate Adam, Sam, Jussie, etc. want in a gay musician? These are human beings here, they're not perfect.
Jussie should be able to come out however he wants. If he feels like he wants to keep his private life private and coming out shouldn't be a big newsworthy event then let him live his truth.
The fact of the matter is he's a celeb, and regardless of the "way" he did it, it would have made headlines because of the character he plays on TV. If he had just left it without comment, some pics of him and his man would surface one day and yall would be the FIRST to call him out for being "closeted" and another "dl gay black man". There's already a lot of talk about him being gay, having nudes, etc. A 3rd party quote that he was gay made national news. I'm sure he probably just wanted to take control of the situation before the media had the chance to run wild, so decided to do this interview as an official statement. Leave the man alone and let him enjoy his success.