Honestly, I don't even know
I joke and call myself ugly a lot, but I know I'm good looking
I think most of it has to do with not initiating any interaction
I'm not really a
shy person, but I don't really go out of my way to talk to people
it's also not as easy to find a potential romantic partner when you're gay
straight people can always walk up to a member of the opposite sex and inquire,
but if I walked up to the first guy I thought was cute and asked them out, it wouldn't be as acceptable
then when you do meet a gay who looks the part, they turn out to be taken or complete trash
it's a lot