Nah, I've come to accept myself as more feminine and there's nothing wrong with that. I just hate how feminine gays are usually thought of as catty etc.
if u mean masc as in those guys who write "no fem bots twinks fats" in their grindr bio then no thanks i dont wanna be one. Im straight acting tho since i cant come out my closet it will mess up my life real bad
Yeah, and i'm already getting there to be honest because i'm putting so much work into my body and working out. also my trainer is amazing and is giving me lots of results. really happy about that. but i see myself a mixture of masculinity and femininity.
All of this has nothing to do with masculinity/femininity though, sorry boo.
I am masculine, I listen to the Queen of the straights* Rihanna and *insert rappers and irrelevant rock band here*. I run on the treamill for 20 minutes once a week work out, have a (faked) deep voice and am friends with lots of straights (all girls). When I go places nobody actually says knows I'm gay, and I watch homoerotic wrestling sports all the time.
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Um what does having a deeper voice, working out and gaining muscle have to do with being masculine? I know bears, and muscle bears that are as queeny as they want to be.
And no, I have no desire to be masc. Masculine gays have a superiority complex and that is not appealing. Im more like half a queen: my voice isnt deep, I dont have a lot of muscle but I have no fashion sense and Im always seen in sweatpants and a hoodie and watch futbol so it throws people off because there are conflicting elements. I would much rather be around fems than masc though.
What is Masculine though? Having big biceps? Liking cars? Being a top? You can be all those things and still put makeup on and twirl like a queen. Everyone should just accept who they are and try to be the best at that. These labels are useless.
