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Originally posted by TheFireLexus
He's happy he's not effeminate. Same way some people are happy they are. Big deal
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there's nothing wrong with being happy you're not effeminate but the problem is him making it sound like effeminate is a bad thing which is the problem with a lot of gay people.
gay people feel as if to be accepted by society, you have to be this 'masculine figure' because that way society "respects" you. and it's really disgusting and it shows the self hate amongst yourself. at the end of the day what gays need to realize, the general public wont think any less of you if you're a masculine gay or a feminine gay - you're a gay male at the end of the day.
i'm tired of this negative connotation with being feminine as if there's something wrong with being feminine and that's what russell tovey is making it seem like when it's obvious that there's still some insecurity about your sexuality. being masculine will not erase the fact that you still like men and suck d*ck at the end of the day.