So say you had a crush on someone for a really long time, and then you found out they wanted you, but they were dating someone for a few months, maybe even a year or two, would you still continue to pursue them?
They don't have kids together, aren't married, or anything crazy like that.
Nope. I know how it feels to be cheated on, and it was one of the worst feelings in the world. It completely destroys your self esteem. Wouldn't do that to someone else.