As a gay man, Im scared that its basically fate that I will get cheated on at least once in my life. Im scared that ill devote my life to someone and then find them in our bed with another guy at some point or something.
Yes. I won't go into detail, but it ended because he confessed to me that he messed around with 5 other guys (with 2 of those 5 men being on multiple ocassions). I've had a hard time trusting since then, but I haven't completely boxed all men into one category. It wouldn't be fair.
yep, and i can't give you any encouragement: it was pretty awful.
basically this guy and i were dating but he lived like 30 minutes away by car and neither of us have a car, so seeing each other was kinda difficult. so later on he confessed to me that he liked this other guy that lived closer to him but he said he'd stay together with me and try to get through the difficulties we were having together. then he had sex with the other guy, and he thought i wouldn't find out but he told one of my other friends, who posted it on twitter not knowing we were dating, and that's how i caught him. he told me the truth about it and then basically told me he thought i was immature and only caused trouble and that he never wanted to talk to me again and i said/did some things to him that i'm not proud of and eventually i got myself to stop communicating with him. honestly it pisses me off sometimes that he's still dating that other guy because i don't think he deserves a happy relationship with him after that but that's just some saltiness
but i'm pretty much completely over it by now, and i think everyone eventually finds a way to deal with it, so it's not all bleak. it just takes time.
. Must have been hard for you
