As soon as I find out i'm going out, I go and choose my outfit, accordingly -
douching is bad for dudes, but that isn't an issue for me
depending on the time, I take my shower, shave, brush teeth, about two hours earlier and then go head out pick up date, have a fabulous time, always be yourself, that's what made them interested in you to begin with
people usually act the way they think their date will be more accepting - no no, I see through those facades now, it's annoying and hard to keep up with.