What is your process when picking up a girl or a guy? Are you straight to the point or do you lead up into asking? I usually have small talk, compliment the girl, and then eventually ask for her number.

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"Hey, I just noticed you here and was wondering if you want to hang out sometime? I'll give you my number and if you feel like you want to go out later, just shoot me a text. If not, then it's totally cool."

"First of all your welcome. Here's my number, don't call me, I'm always busy."

Just ask. "We should hang out sometime, lets exchange numbers". Doesn't need to be complicated.

start with asking for their snapchat. that's what I do. I then just send snaps and chat on there

Let me perch.

Don't be racist

I usually don't.

Cringe

Nah, I don't pursue guys, they pursue me. :P

Ask them for it

Czech for cash tactics

I don't

Sis, it works more than you know. Being upfront, confident and respectful goes a long way.

Of course, the best way to get someone's number is to have some level of familiarity beforehand.

You're approach would be better if the "if not, it's totally cool" part was dropped. It should be a take it or leave it type of thing

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