Isn't a kiki when a group of friends do drugs at someone's house/apartment instead of going clubbing?
Oh my dear no.
Its a term which grew out of the poor black and latino based sub culture in New York City. A gathering of friends laughing for the purpose of chit chat and release.
A "I'm sorry if I offended anyone by using the N-word" teas
Quote:
A kiki is a party, for calming all your nerves
We're spilling tea, and dishing just desserts one may deserve
And though the sun is rising, few may choose to leave
So shade that lid and we'll all bid adieu to your ennui
They're not actually eating cakes and ice creams that makes them calm, keep them awake all night and get rid of their ennuis.