I have never been the kind of guy that has had a whole lot of confidence. When I lost weight, I really started to like myself and accept myself for who I was. Now I have a somewhat better confidence in myself.

So do you have confidence in yourself?

No. I have very low self esteem

Yea it's the most important thing.

Sometimes in different situations.

Its sad how people look at themselves poorly. I feel like everyone is beautiful in their own way. Were all different and unique. Were all beautiful inside and out...

Yeah, nah. I don't really. I'm not unconfident, I'm rather in the middle. Not to be arrogant (I hate arrogance), but honestly sometimes I get home and look in the mirror and I'm like "why did I spend the entire day acting so shy? Why did I spend the entire day undermining my worth? I look good". At social events I'm never loud or obnoxious, I'm just polite and hold back my personality to ensure I'm judged as least as possible. I wait for people to apporach me because I'm scared of rejection and whatnot when I approach people. Sometimes I look in the mirror and look kinda tragic, but to be fair that's usually my fault for not doing my hair and wearing ugly clothes that day. Idk, I feel a lot more comfortable being lowkey. I imagine that I'll reach this stage in my life in a couple years where I'm not dragged down by self-esteem issues.

Yes and I've felt amazing ever since I've changed myself to improve it.

Not at all.

Its one of things that takes time to change I feel like.

You'll feel much better when you gain confidence. And that is not arrogance at all, that's just loving yourself and taking care of yourself. Arrogance is "Oh they will like me I don't care everyone likes me )", Confidence is like "I'll be fine if they don't like me or if they do, either way I have myself"

I found looking in the mirror everyday in the mirror and telling myself that I look good helps. Try it sometime....

not even a teeny tiny bit

I'm confident, but the only thing that lowers my self-esteem is my dad.

Beer

My mom kept telling me a while back I didnt have self confidence. I got really upset because she doesn't know me like that. I clearly do....

HOW

Honestly everything is just a mindset. It all started when I got done with junior high, which was the (personally) most disgusting period of my life and I've looked the WORST. I concentrated on my school only and a couple of friends of mine would get into relationships here and there and I had convinced myself that I could only dream of that.

Then after that my best friend who was really, really close friends with a girl in our grade told me that she had had a crush on me since like 5th grade. I kinda paid it dust at that time but a couple days later I realized how much of a confidence boost that was, a girl liked me, the guy who never did the hair, wore mainstream sweatshirts with brand logos on them and had a unibrow.

When I got into high school I told myself F*CK THAT, so I started taking care of myself better. Money I'd get from birthdays/parents/relatives/etc. I would save them and spend them on quality clothes (please not something like American Eagle) or personal care products. NO matter what they say, appearance DOES play a big role in someone approaching you. After I had that on lock I basically stopped giving a **** about whether people liked me or not, it just became a habit to take care of myself, like, it was necessary. And once you stop giving a ****, that's when you know you're more confident, and I SWEAR that's when people lure in.

Good luck

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