not with me. if it happens u shouldn't forgive...or forgive but do not go back

hbu? what do u think?

No. Why make a thread about something that has such an obvious answer? Lol.

Um... why would you not forgive? Domestic violence doesn't usually mean "they chopped my arm off" or something like that. Every time you get in a fight you hold a lifelong grudge against that person? If murderers and such can be forgiven I'm pretty sure a little domestic violence can too.

Never.

because different ppl have different opinions.
and view the question differently. hence why so many women go back to violent relationships etc.
a lot do forgive. so its not as "obvious" as you claim lol.

As somebody who has been in an abusive relationship, I think its very mature to forgive.. but not go back. But honestly, not everybody handles things the same way, and not every situation is the same.

goosey bae did u read the op fully?

Goosey has a point, surprisingly.

I mean.. You should forgive for your own inner peace. Forgiving is the most effective way to move on and honestly, it's the only way to live a fully happy life.

But a person who is a victim of domestic violence should never go back to their abuser.

Nope. Never.

No, domestic violence is the worst IMO.

I agree completely, if you can get out STAY out.

Right?

Get that hit thread

I've learnt to forgive and forget my ex. But never go back.

I don't even understand it, like at a base level. If you're mentally stable, if you're an average person... how in hell could you ever physically, mentally, or emotionally abuse someone you claim to love? How could you intentionally hurt them? I just don't understand. There are some things I would never do, and would never allow myself to contemplate. To hurt someone who loves you and who you claim to love is the lowest you can get.

Forgive if you want. Allow yourself peace to move on from what's happened. Maybe even forget about the person and what they've done, if you feel that it's what's best for you. I can't tell anyone how to feel.

But never, ever go back.

In a straight relationship, no.
In a gay relationship, yes.

girl the way u write gets me all kinds of emotional making me cry and feeling reborn like the lordT himself even tho i never was domestically abused by a partner how u do this? God sent gift? well for now thats the only explanation I gots
#beautiful

no

knock the **** out of them or get someone bigger than u to do it

then leave and neva return

don't listen to these chris brown sympathisers sistrens, here is a number if u have been affected by any issues in this thread: 1-800-799-7233 (USA), 0808 2000 247 (UK)

I don't know honestly... Maybe, but it depends on the situation and the severity of the crime.

He we go... this may start some mess lol

But for me I really have no say unless it happened to me or someone I know. If one partner wants to forgive then I say let them be. I won't even give the abuser a hard time unless they had a history of doing it and what Ressti stated.

Never.

And the whole 'you need to forgive in order to move on' is a load of crap tbh