Celeb News: Sam Smith is single - Page 5

umich

So is this confirmed or nah?

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Originally posted by Ultraviolence

At least he'll save a bit of money not having to buy enema kits.

popmagic

I don't see the break up part. But that guy was prolly a check bait so w/e.

HotHeaven

we all saw it coming, I mean come on..

Rihinvention

This is why gay guys need to stop being so antsy about saying they're in a relationship or referring to a guy as their boyfriend. It's embarrassing to be like "oh...we broke up" only 3 months later. In Sam's case, probably even less. I'm sorry but 12 weeks isn't a relationship. That's just dating someone.

Wait 6-8 months before referring to someone as your boyfriend. Until then, say you're dating or "seeing each other." It's kind of tragic to say "we broke up" about someone you met like 1 month earlier. Being able to say "we're not dating" or "we're not seeing each other anymore" is way more casual and way less serious.

I know Sam hasn't used the words "boyfriend" or "break-up" in any of this. It's just something I've noticed about gay guys in general. How ready they are to make something official and tell others they're in a relationship, or that *this person* is "my boyfriend." Too many young, gay men seem like they need to refer to someone as their boyfriend to validate themselves.

Sure, maybe not Sam. But this just reminded me of it and, as usual, I've gone off on a rant. Soz. Again.

P!nkism

Nowhere it says they broke up.
And to the people saying: the bf got his money and ran - the boyfriend can't get any money coz they weren't ****ing married

KatysPrism

21 part 2 is coming

ivi

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Originally posted by Rihinvention

This is why gay guys need to stop being so antsy about saying they're in a relationship or referring to a guy as their boyfriend. It's embarrassing to be like "oh...we broke up" only 3 months later. In Sam's case, probably even less. I'm sorry but 12 weeks isn't a relationship. That's just dating someone.

Wait 6-8 months before referring to someone as your boyfriend. Until then, say you're dating or "seeing each other." It's kind of tragic to say "we broke up" about someone you met like 1 month earlier. Being able to say "we're not dating" or "we're not seeing each other anymore" is way more casual and way less serious.

I know Sam hasn't used the words "boyfriend" or "break-up" in any of this. It's just something I've noticed about gay guys in general. How ready they are to make something official and tell others they're in a relationship, or that *this person* is "my boyfriend." Too many young, gay men seem like they need to refer to someone as their boyfriend to validate themselves.

Sure, maybe not Sam. But this just reminded me of it and, as usual, I've gone off on a rant. Soz. Again.

I totally agree btw. My bf and me didn't call us each other bfs until 4 months in our relationship.....cause we were just dating. And it got really serious after 1 year I'd say.

I hope Sam isn't too sad though.

mariahcarey

I'm so shocked!

NOT!

Losing my ground

Already?

He looks so good in that picture.

Rihbeyga

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Originally posted by rihannabiggestfan

Oh no

Well he deserves to be happy and with someone who likes him for who he is, not the fame

You want him to be a priest then.

Rihbeyga

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Originally posted by Rihinvention

This is why gay guys need to stop being so antsy about saying they're in a relationship or referring to a guy as their boyfriend. It's embarrassing to be like "oh...we broke up" only 3 months later. In Sam's case, probably even less. I'm sorry but 12 weeks isn't a relationship. That's just dating someone.

Wait 6-8 months before referring to someone as your boyfriend. Until then, say you're dating or "seeing each other." It's kind of tragic to say "we broke up" about someone you met like 1 month earlier. Being able to say "we're not dating" or "we're not seeing each other anymore" is way more casual and way less serious.

I know Sam hasn't used the words "boyfriend" or "break-up" in any of this. It's just something I've noticed about gay guys in general. How ready they are to make something official and tell others they're in a relationship, or that *this person* is "my boyfriend." Too many young, gay men seem like they need to refer to someone as their boyfriend to validate themselves.

Sure, maybe not Sam. But this just reminded me of it and, as usual, I've gone off on a rant. Soz. Again.

Aren't you dating your bf though?
If you are exclusive you are in a relationship. /

orlandoe

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Originally posted by Shakira Stan

Well, he looks like a bottom and Sam's a bottom. I kind of knew that it wasn't gonna last.

Sam needs a MAN that would make him feel alive.

nnnn.

Bey'Knight

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Originally posted by Rihinvention

This is why gay guys need to stop being so antsy about saying they're in a relationship or referring to a guy as their boyfriend. It's embarrassing to be like "oh...we broke up" only 3 months later. In Sam's case, probably even less. I'm sorry but 12 weeks isn't a relationship. That's just dating someone.

Wait 6-8 months before referring to someone as your boyfriend. Until then, say you're dating or "seeing each other." It's kind of tragic to say "we broke up" about someone you met like 1 month earlier. Being able to say "we're not dating" or "we're not seeing each other anymore" is way more casual and way less serious.

I know Sam hasn't used the words "boyfriend" or "break-up" in any of this. It's just something I've noticed about gay guys in general. How ready they are to make something official and tell others they're in a relationship, or that *this person* is "my boyfriend." Too many young, gay men seem like they need to refer to someone as their boyfriend to validate themselves.

Sure, maybe not Sam. But this just reminded me of it and, as usual, I've gone off on a rant. Soz. Again.

Smh u need to speak for yourself. What works for u, does not work for everybody else. Personally i have no intention of devoting 6months of my life to "just dating". commitment-phobic gays arent my type anyways

Can a mod pls close this thread? The title and the quote dont match. Let Sam live atrl. Like it or not, he's found a boy!!!

izzy™

BeBeMint

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Originally posted by MusicLoverDude

The fact that MY relationship probably lasted longer than his

why do you make EVERYTHING about YOU??? Legit no one cares stfu

Ghostlysnaker

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Originally posted by BeBeMint

why do you make EVERYTHING about YOU??? Legit no one cares stfu

Ready for another amazing album

c0caine

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Originally posted by MusicLoverDude

The fact that MY relationship probably lasted longer than his

Why do you talk about your relationship in every single thread