Member Since: 3/7/2012
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If you're know for a fact you're not sexually attracted to her, don't even go there. Regardless of whether you're gay/bi/straight, dating someone you don't have 'those' feelings for is hurtful for you both.
Take it from me, a year or so ago after knowing I was gay from about the age of 11, I questioned myself because I feel like I really love my best female friend. I would stay up all night thinking about it. I would say to myself that it didn't matter whether I found her attractive or not, because I love her. I talked to my mum about it and she told me I would be very unhappy in a relationship with someone I'm not attracted to. A relationship is a very mental thing, it takes lots of emotion and strength, but it's also a physical thing. Tip from me, don't confuse 'love' like how you love your closest friends and family, with 'being in love'. I realized after talking to my mum that I couldn't be in a relationship with a girl, because I don't have those feelings for them.
Also, even if you 'could' be bi/bi-curious, I wouldn't 'try' it. If she really feels that way about you, she deserves the respect of you being honest and saying you don't love her in that way. She shouldn't be your 'experiment' to see whether you could be with a girl. Again, this is from personal experience. I realized it's unfair to date a girl to just see if you could go there, because IMO you just know whether you could or you couldn't.
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