I don't know about y'all but the me from three years ago would think I'm becoming horribly superficial, but I don't know, maybe that's the way everyone's supposed to be. I've been so conflicted ever since August about this.
I mean, do most people feel like nothing is better than looking good? Is that where I should try to lay my cards? I'm really lost.
I guess it's not really about superficiality; to me that means looking down on others because of their appearance. It's more about how much of a priority one's own appearance should be to them.
ATRL's a pretty bad place to ask I guess because it's not exactly a wide range of types of people and opinions, but I'm afraid to ask irl
I think everyone goes through this stage in their life and everyone still feels like this to a certain degree. There's nothing wrong with taking care of your appearance, you just have to learn to appreciate and accept the way you look. If you're taking your self-worth from what other people view you as, or how attractive they say you are, then it's a problem. As long as you're content with your own appearance then feel free to be as vain as you like, as long as it's not something which takes over your life.
It's a hard balance to get right, but I've learnt over the years that life's too short to constantly be hung up on insecurities.
Thanks for the advice Gareth
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Originally posted by Bitchcraft
Is wanting to look good really considered superficial I mean
Maybe my post directly before yours clears up that confusion a bit? I don't think it's superficial just to want to look good.
Me from 3 years ago would think I'm superficial as well tbh
I hate my insecurities. like its not my fault my nose is bigger than Russia plus I have a Rihanna forehead and my cheeks are chubby and my rib cage sticks out
Me from 3 years ago would think I'm superficial as well tbh
I hate my insecurities. like its not my fault my nose is bigger than Russia plus I have a Rihanna forehead and my cheeks are chubby and my rib cage sticks out
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