I get along with straight guys easier than I do gay guys. With gay guys I always feel this weird competition thing going on that I dont feel with women and straight men. Very few gay guys that I dont sense some sort of competition with. I dont like to feel overly competitive with my friends. Its the reason my gay boss and I get along. We can compliment each other vs being in competition.
I have an assortment of close friends. Gay, bi, lesbian, straight. So I don't know where the problem lies in any type of friendship. Straight guys may not understand it, but you can help them understand, you could learn from eachother. If you truly value your friendship, sexual preferences & gender shouldn't matter tbqh.
I get along with straight guys easier than I do gay guys. With gay guys I always feel this weird competition thing going on that I dont feel with women and straight men.
Same here! Do you think that could be due to what I said in the OP? Because us gay guys feel the pressure to conform to the fabulous gay norm, and don't want to be replaced if we're not "fabulous" enough? (Just a theory)
Anyone can be friends with anyone they want to be friends with. Doesn't matter what sexual orientation you are.
Most of my closest friendships are straight females, but I'm also friends with a lot of straight males, and other gay males. Doesn't really matter what your sexual preference is.
Obviously, that's a fact, gay men and straight women are meant to be friends. A more interesting question would be if straight men and lesbians can be friends
Obviously, that's a fact, gay men and straight women are meant to be friends. A more interesting question would be if straight men and lesbians can be friends
They could be, but would they be for the right reasons?
y'all need to fix your life, if you have friends that you treat you like a pet that's because you've allowed that. I'm a girl with gay friends and I would never even dream of reducing them to "my gay best friend" what kinda ******** is that.
I'm friends with straight females, gay females, straight males, gay males, bisexual people and even genderqueer people. I'm pretty sure you can just be friends with people regardless of that stuff.
Same here! Do you think that could be due to what I said in the OP? Because us gay guys feel the pressure to conform to the fabulous gay norm, and don't want to be replaced if we're not "fabulous" enough? (Just a theory)
I dont think so. I dont feel the need to conform to stereotypes. Im just myself. People like me for that. If they dont oh well. There is nothing I can do to solve other peoples problems with me.