its a known fact that u cant be the "it" thing in gay community unless u have 6 pack abs or good looks... do u believe this way too?
Is it easy for u to find A+ baes on grindr easily?
how hard do u work to be the "it" thing?

Very hard and expensive!! Looking good can cost a lot of money.

Hair cut every 2 weeks

I woke up like dis

Eh, I mean when I want to look good i'll put effort into it, but otherwise I just look tragic most of the time

I do sort of work "hard-ish" on it because I learned the hard way that gays only want 1 night stands...if you wanna keep one you need to work triple the amount that a str8 couple would. because gays get tired of a guys looks so fast
but ya i mainly do it for me anyways so ya

so i work out, I try and eat as healthy as I can, I cut my hair often, wear proper clothing and ya...

but i dont work too hard tbh

Basically

This applies to shaving my face too. It's so boring and annoying so I just postpone it for like ever

I don't put a whole lot of effort into it. The beauty comes naturally.

I do my best to eat healthy and work out to make myself feel good, I couldnt care less what some shallow vapid idiot on grindr thinks. Its all about ME

Yaaaas, sis, your eyebrow game is so strong.

not at all I throw on a tshirt and pants and sometimes they dont even match. I can barely even be bothered to get a haircut every month

Not a whole lot. I just put together lil cute ensembles when neccessary.
If I'm going to school, out with friends, or shopping, then I try to look good.
If I'm at the grocery store, then who gives a ****?

Not really, I like my face enough, and I'm not interested in having many people flirting with me

I only put effort in my hair

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