She smashed her own car. What's the big deal? She can afford it.

The sad thing is that it will be defended.
Now let's suppose SB bought her a ring, a car or something (let's be real he earned money) and he did the same thing...would he be defended. Of course not...be a man, he's so ungrateful. he's so immature blah blah blah would be posted.
It is what it is.

The same thing is that you were right.
See below

Exhibit A.

That's the big deal. But it was a bigger deal when the tea was fresh in the summer.

Now someone just reheating tea in the microwave and tried to serve it as folger's in my cup

If Justin Bieber did this and he's what 20 or something how would it come off
If Miley cyrus did this how would it come off
If Mariah carey did this how would this come off
If Cher did this how would this come off
If a 3 year old destroyed his/her own toy because it got too challenging for him/her how would this come off

So at any age this is just messy and unfortunately. Hopefully, that's the last of this nonsensical behavior.
But you have to know that there are people that will defend it in any way.
people defend abuse and violence all the time.

People literally get away with murder...I mean that's the world today.Meh