So when do you think you're going to come out? I think coming out will make you a better person and live a happier life as you're more true to yourself. It'll also make finding a boyfriend easier because everyone will know you're gay instead of waiting for someone to hit on you. Maybe this upcoming Christmas?
I was thinking of when I leave for college next year so I don't have to deal with it if my family has a problem with it (99.99% sure they wouldn't though, it must be obvious anyway I mean I'm a GaGa stan). I don't feel ready tho
It feels like something I'd just have to force myself to say just to get it over with...
I was hoping to do it soon. I know everyone will be supportive, but how tf do I do it without having to go through some big song and dance?
I was planning on drunkenly getting on with some guy and have everyone realise by that...
To all of you who are in situations where you can't come out, I'm sorry x
Just tell your friends that you're gay, it's not that difficult honestly. They might need a hot minute to reflect and stuff, but at least my friends supported me. They even are trying to get me with a boy. I'm swimming in D.
Just kidding, but it wasn't that difficult once I did it the first time. I told my family and they were all right (not ecstatic tho). But it feels like a huge weight off my chest and I've been emotionally and physically better now. I'm still the same person, but a select few knows that I like the d. It turned out well.
But if your family won't accept you, just wait until you're independent.
not on my plans tbh. only person that knows is my sister Currently browsing grindr, jackd, & hornet even tho ik it will have the same result as always: nothing. ugh i need a bf so bad. i wanna cuddle and kiss a guy, and blow his goods all night long.
I've been out for three years now and it was one of the best yet worst decisions I ever made because it really changed my relationship with my mum in a negative way but it helped me be comfortable with who I am a lot more so I don't regret it
It's weird because I'm out to everyone except my family
Like I don't know, I'm still not comfortable and afraid of rejection, sometimes when I meet people and they ask if I'm gay I say no then wait for them to figure out that I'm bi.
I think I'm gonna wait until I'm leaving for college so if my parents try to disown me I'm not gonna have to depend on them.
Most of my close friends already know that I may not be 100% straight, cause of my "you should taste everything in your life", "who doesn't like experiments" talks. I guess they think I'm bi and to be honest I'm fine with it.
At least think about the possibilities of doing it. You can't find and maintain a relationship if you can't be comfortable with yourself and have the confidence to tell at least one important person in your life the truth. There has to be someone in your life that you would consider giving out this secret to. Trust me, it'll make you a stronger person from the inside which will radiate outside. Whatever situation you are in will eventually change, you won't be living with your judgemental parents or family members all your life.
It turned out well.
